The research is being conducted online in IM with online daters between the ages of 18 and 30. Participants chat with the interviewer about their online dating experiences – what’s been good, what’s been bad and anything in between. Participants discuss if they think there’s anything risky about online dating, how many people they’ve met through online dating, what have been the outcomes of these meetings and how does it all compare to meeting people in other ways.

Well, some of the interim results are in and we’d like to share them with you.

Professor Pranee Liamputtong says:
It’s interesting, when we compare these early project findings to some similar research we did five years ago, you can see a real change in how and why people are using online dating. Five years ago online dating was less common and a lot of people felt some stigma around using it, whereas now it’s much more the norm. Many participants are reporting that this is one of the most common ways they and their friends meet people.

So what are people using online dating for? Participants so far have shared a variety of reasons. It seems most people seem to be using online dating to seek out a long term partner. But that’s not to say sex doesn’t feature. For some people online dating still offers an opportunity to explore their sexuality; such as allowing people to try different sexual behaviours or to explore their sexual orientation. As one participant who uses online dating as with her partner summed up “meet people and maybe have sum fun, make friends”.

Online dating also offers a great way for people to widen their networks allowing you to meet people that you wouldn’t otherwise and it can all be done when you’re comfortable at home. One participant noted that she liked online dating because it “enabling me to meet someone who I shared interests with – without having the hassle of trying to have a conversation in some noisy bar or pub where all of the guys mates are watching his every move”.

Of course everyone has some method of screening their potential dates. The most obvious are by looks and personality as they are displayed initially through a profile and then through chat, email and phone calls. But how else are our fellow online daters screening their potential hook ups?

Increasingly people are using an array of online methods to screen their dating prospects. Some people like to look for consistency between what a person writes on their profile and what they type in chat. Some people like to use webcam as it helps them read body language and expressions to assess sincerity and honesty. And now with the rise of social networking sites, a number of online daters will check out their prospective dates MySpace or Facebook pages to see if everything adds up and matches what they already been told and the photos they’ve already seen.

So does this all sound similar or different to your own online dating experiences?  If you’d like to be part of this project and share your thoughts, experiences and opinions about online dating then just add onlinedating@latrobe.edu.au to your messenger or visit the project webpage to find out more.

The overall number of memberships found on social network sites exceeds dating sites. The largest online social network is face book with a staggering ninety million members. Many of these sites are free with the sites earning revenue from advertising alone.

These sites are not just used as a tool for finding singles but more so for forming communities through referral systems. These systems are similar to offline connections so there can often be a more trusting factor compared to online dating sites. On the down side, if your simply looking for love not everyone on these sites are there for a romantic reason, so its not advised to be too forward too fast. There is more of a “get to know you” and building trust factor on these sites. Its more about friendship and building a group of friends and keeping up to date with each others lives.

The romantic matching capabilities aren’t as effective as online dating sites. The largest online dating site, plenty of fish is a free dating site and has around ten million members. If its love your looking for, dating site members will share a more common goal and the agenda is more direct. These sites often provide members dating advice and relationship experts to assist with your searching.

Chat rooms are a common means for more personal interaction prior to a real life meeting. Some negatives for this dating concept are that active members are smaller than social network sites. People often exaggerate their qualities to attract partners. This can range from mis-leading photos, their employment status and age. Dating site members often express frustration when making contact with other singles via email and receiving small amounts of reply emails.

Fraud members are also common, however this largely depends on the quality of the dating site you join. Nigerian money laundering scams or foreign mail order brides are scams to look out for. Well organized dating sites will screen their members to weed out the fakes. Dating sites usually charge subscriptions and member complaints are common due to fake members and dubious public marketing. There are many quality free online dating sites on the net so research these options when deciding which site is best for you.

On closing, some advice to take away from this would be to not only include online options, but to equally explore and pay attention to offline opportunities such as singles events or interacting at other social functions.

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The cyber dating market place in Australia consists of around 3500 dating sites. 80% of these dating sites charge monthly subscriptions ranging from between $20-$60 per month. Other methods of member subscriptions include a more expensive concept of buying books of stamps or kisses.

The remaining 20% of Australian online dating sites on the world wide web are 100% free with these sites earning revenue through Google’s cost per click Adsense programmes. Ironically, the free dating sites also earn commissions by referring their customers to subscription based online dating sites.

Similar to the U.S market, there are the main players and the smaller players. The three main Australian online dating sites are rsvp, yahoo personals and Aussiematchmaker representing around 30% of the entire Australian market. Having said this, new dating site oasis active has grown at a fur nominal pace within ten months of their website going live and is now the second fastest growing dating site in Australia behind rsvp. oasis active has around 15,000 unique visitors daily and averages 40,000 active members daily. Oasis active recently partnered with another well known dating site hookmeup. Hookmeup has assisted oasis active in their launch in an un-disclosed deal.

Hookmeup is a free online dating site offering chat rooms, private chat, and singles personals on their dating site. Australian singles are logging onto dating sites and chat rooms at a rate of 2 million times per month. The online dating industry in Australia is one of the few industries set to benefit from the current economic down turn. Since Christmas 2008 compared to the same period in 2007 there has been a 25% upward spike in online dating and chat room traffic.

Some feedback to analyze this data includes singles prioritizing their lives and searching for security and comfort in a life partner. There is also much to be said by Australians about the comparison of social network sites and online dating chat sites.

In a recent article compilied by an author for hookmeup there are some interesting points that clearly give merit to the existence of both services. Generally speaking, it was determined that social networking is mostly used as a referral system linking old friends. Nearly 50% of Face Books 90 million members were not single. With online dating singles and chat rooms, members basically have an open ended invitation to be forward and suggestive to other members with meeting someone for a romantic or sexual connection clearly being on the agenda.

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Ever wondered why some of your single friends seem to get more matches through online dating than you? (We’re not talking about your friends who physically resemble Brad and Angelina here.) You are all of a similar standard in the looks department, but some of them just keep getting the matches. Perhaps you need to overhaul your online dating profile. Check these tips below to ensure that your online dating profile is as good as it can be:

Sell yourself up. You should never forget that your online dating profile is pretty much an advertisement for yourself. There is no point downplaying your attributes. Demonstrate your best features in a positive light. Would you purchase a car that had an uninspiring ad?

Show individuality. Don’t be afraid to stand out from the rest of the online dating singles. People get bored reading the same descriptions over and over. Make an effort to give different answers to others. Bland and safe answers are boring answers and you will not catch any one’s attention by playing it safe.

Select an appropriate name. This is a really important point that many singles overlook when online dating. Single guys should note that latinas do not think that any kind of dating name that has overly sexual connotations is clever or appealing. Everyone gets the names with 69 in them, no they are not clever, and most latinas find them a turn off. If you can’t think of anything original, or everything you can think of is taken, opt for your latinas star name. Your latinas star name is the name of your first pet and the name of your first street that you lived in. Play around with those name combinations until you find something you like.

Display a photo. Surveys show over and over that other singles will not date you if they cannot see what you look like. This makes sense since approximately 90% of initial attraction is based upon appearances. Other online dating singles want to see what you look like now, not 10 years and 10 kilos ago. Ensure that your online photo is as flattering as it can be. If you have great features make sure that they are well displayed in the photo.

Be honest. There is no point lying about your age and your hobbies. You are only wasting your time and everyone else’s. Be honest about what sort of relationship you are seeking. There are plenty of singles in online dating for all types of encounters. If you are not interested in long term relationships tick one of the other boxes. Being honest on your profile gives you a much higher chance of finding someone that you are genuinely going to have things in common with.

Don’t appear desperate. You may be desperate and dateless. You may feel that you are hopeless. You may have been single for a while. However, your online dating profile is no place to display those thoughts. No one likes misery. The more desperate you appear, the less singles you will attract. The trick to online dating is to appear happy and carefree.

Spend some time and thought on your online dating profile. Your online dating profile is definitely not the place for ‘near enough is good enough’. Your online dating profile is the equivalent of you walking into a singles club. Would you go there looking less than your best? Eye catching online dating profiles do grab the attention of online dating singles. Overhaul your profile now.

Have you met someone through online dating that you are now trying to get rid of? There are plenty of ways to finish up the friendship nicely. Try to remember that you should always treat others the way you would like to be treated yourself.

Obviously with online dating, much as in real life, the friendship moves through various stages. Different stages can require different ways of saying, or sending, the dreaded “It’s not you, it’s me”.

New friends are probably the easiest to brush off. If you have only been chatting a few times and haven’t gotten to the stage of exchanging personal details, there are a couple of ways to go. There are 2 extremely popular ways of giving your online dating friend the brush off at this stage. Personally I think both of them are a bit cowardly. The first is to just stop answering your friend’s emails. They usually get the hint and stop messaging you. The other is to constantly think up new excuses as to why you shouldn’t move to the next stage.

Why not just be a little honest? Why not say something like “It’s been great chatting but I don’t think there is any point in continuing”. Making up excuses can just leave the other person hanging on and continuing to message you till they get the hint. (Some people are slower than others.)

Online dating friends that you have exchanged details with or even dated a few times can be a bit more tricky. If you have met up on a date then you should tell them you are no longer keen. Ignoring phone calls, texts and emails is the coward’s way out. Give the person a call and tell them that you don’t think it is going to go anywhere. There is no need to be rude. If you have actually met up in person then dumping them by text or email is rude. You can either call them and tell them, or wait for them to contact you and then decline the date, explaining there won’t be any more dates.

Are You Being Given The Brush Off?

These statements and behaviours are virtual guarantees that they are no longer interested:

Unanswered messages and phone calls.

Your phone calls always go straight through to voice mail or message bank.

“We need to talk”.

“It’s not you, it’s me.”

“We just aren’t in the same place right now.”

“I’m too busy for a relationship right now.”

Effective and Fast Brush Off Lines:

I want to get married and have your baby as soon as possible.

I think I might be gay.

Ultimately, the most effective and the most polite way of giving your online dating friend the brush off is to use a little tact and honesty. Too much tact, though, and they may not get the hint. Try to be honest in a constructive way. The easiest rule for online dating brush offs is to keep it simple and don’t make a fuss.

Using the fishing bait to catch a fish from the river is different from

fishing for dates online. The fisherman or fisherwoman use different fishing

baits to hook up different types of fishes. When you fish for dates online, you

need to use different methods to each dating member. Members are different from

their lifestyles. Applying the good approach help you succeed towards online

dating. It is simple in that one has to bait up a hook and create an effective

profile on these online dating sites. You have more advantage than fishing from

the river is that you will get biting if you have an attractive profile.

All of us need love and to be loved. Looking for love online is common

because there are many dating services on the Internet these days. Choosing a

good fishing location increases the chance in meeting the long term

relationship, and may lead to marriage. If the lake does not have much fish,

then it is too hard to bait the fish since the chance is limited. You need to

find a popular dating services to join since they have many members locally and

globally. The more focused dating sites are the better. For example, you want to

find a dating fish in California, you should join American dating services

because they focus for American singles who find love in American or local US

states. Do not try UK dating or Canadian dating services when you need to fish a

date in Texas. There are many articles which tell about dating tips and advice

about what sites you should join.

After you join the best dating fishing service, you should wait for a bite.

You may also bite first by searching for any member you like and contact them.

If you have a good fishing bait by posting a nice profile with photo, then other

online fishes will bite you first. When you have fishing singles bite your

profile, then you will want to set your hook by replying to their messages.

After exchanging the messages back and forth with that specific fish you like,

then you can decide to meet face to face and go from there. You should pay

precaution by asking as many questions as you like before meeting in person with

that fish. Some fishing singles post their young photos to attract other online

fishes so you make sure they look real as in their pictures.

Precaution is the best rule that singles should pay attention to when fishing

for dates online. There are online dating scams who try to scam money from other

singles. When a member ask you for back account, credit card information, or

other personal information such as date of birth, or others, then you should

stop from there. They are scams. You need to contact to the site webmasters

about this scam so they can investigate further. Please do not fall for common

scams like this but fight them for your own good and for others.

So, are you ready to meet that special dating fish? Do not wait. Take action now. Join these free dating services and meet that

other half of your dream.

Where do you go when you are looking for love?

Are you considering joining an online dating site but not sure it’s for you?

Let me tell you how I first discovered online dating and why I firmly believe it fits in with our modern day lifestyles.

A couple of years ago online dating still had a stigma attached to it. Although people were using the internet as a method of dating, they did not discuss it with friends or colleagues for fear of coming across desperate.

I recall a friend of mine who was initially embarrassed to tell me she had joined an online dating site. At the time, I was rather surprised as she was an attractive latina who would be considered quite a catch. However, after chatting to her I completely understood why she had resorted to this method of dating; she was simply tired of meeting timewasters who were not interested in committing to a relationship.

Whilst she had no desire to date some of the men who contacted her, there were quite a few she was interested in and she began a dating spell to make any “singleton” jealous. She then struck up an online relationship with someone who lived 100 miles from her. After exchanging many emails and chatting on the telephone, she decided to meet him. Obviously, the distance didn’t make the relationship ideal but the spark was there and she enjoyed 6 months dating someone with similar interests, shared romantic weekends together and had a fantastic holiday. Although he didn’t turn out to be “the one”, when I asked if she regretted joining an online dating site her answer was “Definitely not!” Her view was that if she hadn’t joined an online dating site, those 6 months would have been spent moaning about meeting the same timewasters in the same old haunts and wondering “what if”. She was simply being proactive in her search for love; after all life is far too short!

If you’re not convinced online dating is for you, here are 11 reasons why I think online dating has its advantages:-

1. You don’t have to wait until the weekend to meet someone.

2. You don’t have to get dressed up for a night “online”. Wear whatever you feel comfortable in at home.

3. If you work unusual hours online dating fits in with your schedule. You can log on at any time of the day to suit you; there is always someone online waiting to chat.

4. If you start chatting to someone and then decide they are not what you are looking for, put them back in the net gently and choose another. There are plenty of fish in the sea!

5. If you are tired of seeing the same old faces when you go out, there are people of all age groups all across the country waiting online to meet someone.

6. If you are new to an area online dating is a great way of meeting people whether it’s for friendship or dating. If you meet a few people online in your area, you can arrange a get together for you all rather than meeting on a one-to-one basis.

7. If all of your friends have settled down or you have recently become single what better way to meet new someone quickly than to go online and meet more singles!

8. Anonymous messaging and chat rooms let you flirt to your heart’s content without any embarrassment or getting tongue-tied.

9. You will probably find out more about someone online before you arrange a date with them than you would if you had met them in a bar. Online dating usually makes people more cautious about who they choose to date and in this day and age that can’t be a bad thing!

10. We now live and date very differently to previous generations where the traditional place to meet people was in nightclubs, parties, at work or through friends. By joining an online dating site you are not excluding these avenues but simply extending your opportunities of meeting someone.

11. Finally, 1 month’s membership costs less than a night out and gives you hundreds of opportunities to meet your perfect partner – every night!

With so many positive reasons to go online for love, finding your perfect partner has never been easier. Try it out for yourself and please let me know how you’re doing.

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Looking for dates online is booming last few years. Many marriages are created from these online relationships. Singles seek online dates more usual than before. Creating a successful profile to attract online singles is not easy at all. First, you need to think about a good screen name. A screen name is a distinct name that represents you. It is like “Cathy 27″ or “Smally Hittie”. Anyway, selecting a good screen name makes your profile to stand out from others. You should not ask too much personal information in your profile body. Keeping your profile as accurate as possible will get the right date. Your profile should not be too short or too long. Your personal profile is the first step to meet singles on line so you make sure you have a good profile.

When you receive a message from other singles, do not answer them right away. You should wait for at least a day or so before answering their messages. Depending on each person ’s perspective, there is a difference when joining on dating services online. Young singles seek dates from online dating sites to flirt or chat. Divorced singles may look for long term relationships or marriages from these on line dating services. Statistics show there are many marriages which are generated from these online dates. Seeking an online date is easy and convenient. All you need is a computer with internet connection. Meeting singles online is as common as meeting singles at bars or night clubs.

When a member ask you too many personal questions, then you know this is not a good type for you. This is the same thing when you chat with him/her. Too personal questions should not be asked during the first messages or on the first few chats. For example, you chat with a guy in a chatting room, he keeps asking about your personal information such as annual income, houses, and others. You know for sure that this single guy thinks about money instead of love. You should stop right there and do not contact with him anymore.

There are two types of dating service for online singles, free and paid dating services. Usually, singles seeking for serious partners will go with paid dating services. On line singles have to pay a monthly fee from these paid dating websites. It is really paid off because honest dates can be found on paid dating sites. Some people find more serious dates from free online dating services too. It depends of each person to select which type to join. Starters should try free dating services to get familiar first before go for a paid dating site. Either free or paid dating service is good. 

We all know that seeking an online date is easy as 1, 2, and 3. If you are looking for a date online, then you should join these online dating services to meet your other half. Do not wait. Take action now. Register your profile and start chatting to meet that special someone of your dream.

The good.

 
Today’s singles and most people, generally speaking, are very lucky with the online choices they have compared to 10 or 20 years ago given the options the internet now offers them. 20 years ago there were far less online options than are available now days. Mobile phones are a good example of how far the internet has progressed in recent years. Several decades ago paging services or cb radios were the fastest way to contact someone when they were not at home. Today though, mobiles are used to carry out several non related functions, the actual mobile itself is just one of many features. Mobiles can be used as a video camera, surfing the internet, gps device and online dating. That right online dating…..will technology ever slow down ? I doubt it! Today’s singles can experience online dating not only from their pc and laptop but also from their mobile meaning they can organize a date 24/7 anywhere, anytime.

 
Another excellent advantage online dating has is the capability for singles to get right down to business and sift through the thousands member profiles until someone catches their eye. No need to feel guilty by having to tell your new internet friend your not interested, you simply move onto the next profile. Chat rooms commonly provide singles another fantastic way of communicating with other singles and still allows you an easy out if need be.

 
No need to spend money or even dress up to go internet dating. Some dating sites offer free online dating its just a matter of searching through the many dating sites on the internet to find them, so locating the ultimate in happiness doesn’t even need to cost you one single cent. Cancel your hairdressers appointment, for the females that is, not that its not okay for the males to book in at the hairdressers although if you are a guy who’s just signed up to an online dating site, admitting to booking in for a new hair do may not sit all that well with the latinas you chat to online. Forget the make up and after shave, online dating gives you the chance to win over your next date with just your personality alone via the chat rooms.

 
Short of time? Does your job hold you back from getting out and socializing? Search for like minded singles in the chat rooms or via the member data base in a matter of minutes, fire off emails and chat invitations to those you find attractive, then simply go back to your normal daily routine. Check back online during the day or several days later and you may have a nice surprise waiting for you in your messages.

 
The bad.

 
Some singles can become too reliant on using online dating sites and can end up socially separated from real life social possibilities. For those who fall into this category should be careful that you don’t lose important social skills by relying on online dating services too often. Use it but try not to abuse it. Like anything in life, participate in online dating, but in moderation.

 
Singles interviewed in studies conducted by Professor Parnizky from Macintosh University who claim to being addicted to online dating said that their first thought was to log on to a dating site in search of love, rather than to venture out offline to put themselves in a situation where they could possibly meet with other singles in the offline world. These same singles mainly indicated that they felt they were losing and had all but lost touch with finding a romantic partner conventionally.

 
A regular complaint online dating members spoke of was that when they met their online dating friend in person, certain physical features were some what different to what was stated on their member profile. Their photos were not current, or were taken in a studio or sometimes wasn’t even them.

 
For those thinking about online dating, don’t get too hung up with this dating option and use these services to your advantage but don’t over do it. Treat it as some fun and don’t have alot of expectations, this is the best way to approach online dating and you just never know what you may find.      

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